I have been careful to keep on excellent terms with him, and to avoid all friction, though had I been otherwise disposed, there have been many occasions where trouble might have resulted. Sir Henry is very partial to military matters, and he frequently turns up at my Inspections, Field-days, and Manœuvres; and without giving any tangible grounds for offence, yet his presence is frequently somewhat of a hindrance. Of late he has on several occasions expressed in my hearing to members of my Staff that he comes in the position of C-in-C. I therefore spoke to him two days ago on the subject, but in such a manner that there was no friction, nor ill-feeling between us. But I think he has used this case to get an expression of opinion which may be used to confirm his views in a larger sense.
I have thought it well therefore to draw your attention to this privately and confidentially so that in any reply which may be made to the actual case, care should be taken that it admits of no misconstruction in a wider sense; as otherwise his views might be extended in such a way which would compel my remonstrance and friction might result which is greatly to be deprecated.
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