TELEGRAPH
TUESDAY
JULY
1938.
Concluding the series of questions and counsels by DORIS LANGLEY MOORE on the management of a love affair
Happy Ending
Happy?
By Willam
THIS CURIOUS WORLD Fron
CHOOS
The SUN
WEIGHS ABOUT 700 TIMES,
THE TOTAL WEIGHT OF THE EARTH AND ALL THE OTHER PLANETS
COMBINED,
IRTLAND 26LER
NESTS IN ONLY ONE
STATE..... MICHIGAN... AND THE NESTS ARE PLACED ONLY IN JACK PINE TREES IN A
CERTAIN. FEW
COUNTIES.
HO
A
Drastic
parting
LOVE affair cannot linger for
ever in the regions of excite-
ment, wonder and
romance.
Placid friendship
COMMENTARY
Sooner or later it will take one of three courses: it will either disintegrate completely, or drift into a placid friendship or stabi- se itself in the form of marriage. Everyone hopes that, if love cannot lead to permanent union, it will at least not end in pain and bitterness.
To-day's questionnaire, given Column Five, is devoted to endings. happy and unhappy-in the certainty that much roisery could be avoidect f people would only learn the art of falling out of love gracefully
.
OUR BRITISH
120
TO BE
READ
WHEN THE QUESTIONS HAVE BEEN STUDIED
Group L
see
to
reasons for regretting, and this women especially--don't become ad- jeet and forlorn, Dificult though t may be to believe when the one you wanted has just leapt from your net, there are and always will be other fish in the sca.
Group N
Pride and sentimentality play so large a part in human relations that not two people out of twenty will be capable of putting a truthful "No" to: all these questions, even though each ong represents a way of prolonging unhappiness.
O
Very young people Arc, quite naturally, those most liable to error. As
one grows older one learns-or ought to learn--how to cut onc's losses. The pride which is such source of misery in love affairs does not in the least resemble real self- respect. It is wounded vanity. and there can be no pence of mind until It is eradicated.
No. 1 should be read carefully so that is exact sense understood.
19 The necessity of confession before marriage sevms to me to apply only to "major misdeeds und obstacles
Vanity is always on the defensive, those which might really have un self-respect never; that Is the
If discovered pleasant repercussions
difference. Genuine pride is not to anything be served by manoeuvres YES" is the only rational answer afterwards. I do not
und pos to any question in this group, praiseworthy in ruthless self-exposure
turings. The most sensible method an for its own sake. Marriage does not. of maintaining it is to though few will be able to gİTK
uvokd stays unquafilled assent to all of them. or should not, destroy one's right to
which may lead to a rebuff. possess one's own soul; a fact you inust remember in your turn when As for feeling vindictive, that is a you are tempted to encroachi upon state of suffering which should not the privacy of your hansband or your be endured an instant longer than it wife.
need be. Deliberately to cultivate such a condition is sheer childish folly.
CROSSWORDS
14
con-
Question 3 deinands serious sideration. How comforting it is to pour out one's woes to friends and family! And how furious one fecis with them for recalling the quarrel one would otherwise bave long ago forgotten.
two
on
the
The last
questions concern fundamental rules for married hap pincas. Love will soon be wing unless they are observed.
Group M
As you will readily gather, this is another
'c
A
it is very difficult to enter upion terms of peaceful friendship after dramatle parting: It is also difficult to resume the love affair should it tum out that the separation was, at after all, a mistake. There keeping endings in a low key.
east four other good reasons for Re- gard the taste for dramma with su28- picion whenever it manifests itself in private life,
No attempt to win
a
fost lover
new
cir-
the
reuson-
affirmative sequence. The back will succeed unless love is still just stages of a love affair call for an active on both sides, or absolute maximum of self-control, cumstances arise which alter and unhappily there are many tem- whole position. For general pur- ptations to be unguarded at such
pases, my advice is fall out of love. time.
And the best way of doing that is to throw some extra energy into the In your anxiety to strike the first rest of your life, accept ali blow when parting seems imminent, able chances of pleasure and distrac- you may bring about an unnecessarily tion, seek a change of scene if that drastic end, making future friendship is in your power, and adopt an impossible. There is
seldom
neither cynical nor scnti-
to yourself:
"It is dinished, but it was worth having. I enjoyed a great deal of it, I'm
the
any-
thing to be lost by letting a doubtful a
situation fade quietly out.
nical
al-
Above all, don't give confidences better for it, and I've learned some-
may afterwards have many thing from it for next time."
you
Wedding bells
QUESTIONNAIRE 6
For Men
or Women
GROUP L PERMANENCY
1 Have you discreetly made a clean bretist of major mis- deeds and obstacles so that you need not fear any reve- Intions in the future?
2 Have you a respect for the
privacy even of those know intimately?
you
3 Are you enreful to keep your differences strictly between yourselves?
4
Are you able to hold back references to by-gone griev ances?
5 Do you keep check on any tendency you may have to point out other people's faults and folles for their own good?
GROUP M PARTING
1 Are you content to let things drift instead of taking deal- sive steps when you feel your love affairs is in an un- satisfactory state?
2 Do you avoid risks of bumi- iation in the closing stages? Do you realise that at such a time it is necessary to keep all your attractions at their best, and most foolish to sink Into a depressed and depress- ing condition?
4 Do you abstain from pouring the full details of failure into every sympathetic ear?
GROUP N PARTING
1 Do you feel a great concern
for your pride and dignity? 2 Are you vindictive when
slighted?
3 Do you try to make a drama-
1le occasion of parling?
4 Are you constantly planning
ways of winning the lover back?
5 Do you resolve, secretly or otherwise, to be loyal for ever to the love that has falled you?
HOM
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ACROSS Jike the
partner who
mub-stakes an expedition, but
on terms (13).
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11 Musical term (7).
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13 A
palindrome
nunerals (5).
of
14 Piece of money (4),
Roman
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22 Title of a Millet picture (7).
24 23 down poems pērhups (4).
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(4).
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31 In bold fashion (13).
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Uncompromising, though bad surten .divided (13)
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28 "Not all the water in the rough
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(4).
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