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THE HONGKONG TELEGRAPH. FRIDAY, JANUARY 14; 1938.
Final extract from How to Win a Husband-and Keep Him
You've heard
another
OST of us are jealous; some more so, some less.
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However, jealousy is gen- erally comparatively somnolent until that unfortunate moment when you actually look across the room at a party and seo your husband laughing with some other woman in that wholehearted way that he always reserved for your witticisms alone.
Or, some helpful soul tells you that she has met his new secretary, and is she a beauty i
Then you carefully ask your husband about her. He replies with enthusiasm that she's a darned start girl, and pretty too. As a matter of fact, she is getting on to the busi- - ness sn well (he continues, with what you regard as faked innocence) that he's begin- hing to lunch with her to go over things he. doesn't want to discuss before the others in the office.
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Crash! Your heart drops in your body, and you are certain he must have heard the thuct.
That martyr feeling
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SLEEPLESS night follows,
feel like ant 10 you martyr in the morning.
You descend upon your husband's office at just the wrong time-of course you didn't warn him you were coning for you want to catch him and her unawares. You arrive with a strained and unnatural manner.
there's
woman
make you sick if you could sland away and look at yourself.
The secretary preens herself bit. After all, who could help it?
What you have actually done with your afternoon is to start a nice little fre amouidering in the leaves. How much wiser it would have been to be quietly and, if I may call it so, intelligently jealous.
possible authority-the word of your husband himself that he is hiter ested in pnother woman.
This again is a time for silence, A time for listening, thinking, and being, rather than a time for do- ink.
The person to whom you should speak at this time is yourself. Tell yourself that either you or he hus somehow lost the drst fine, careless ropture of your love. Be honest about it, admitting that either you or he to blame.
Look at yourself relentlessly, and if you And his interest wandering, inove heaven and earth to change
the Kirl youself back into
who used to stand first with him.
The fact that the man you love speaks to another woman as he once rpoke to you can inflict a wound as polgnant as a knife. The fact that she, now, is first in his thoughts, first in his plans, is another dead weight to carry on your heart, Pride will help
Bur
QUT there is a dignity to be maintained throughout the longest night and during the deepest despair. Pride may be skimpy and a scanty cloak, but it gives a woman something to huddle beneath when her very soul shivers and shrivels.
Next, there's to-morrow to face. So pull yourself together, and br thankful there's this to be done and that to be done, even though it ap- pears to be the dullest or the most painful chore in the world.
"The other woman preens ker- self a bit. After all, who
could help it?"
wear black as Miss Blank does? She always looks so smart."
Odol
ODOL
TOOTH PASTE
polishes the teeth
to a pearly whiteness
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Don't waste your time in thinking up revenge against this other wo- man or against the hus- band who has hurt you
Revenge 30.
Is the refuge of smull minds. It is not for you.
So, if you happen to- day to be travelling this rocky road, say to your self, "Suppose he does leave me for this wo- man? I'll not speak of It until he tells me of What traits does your bushand admire in her? Are they traits he Say nothing for a moment until course. But what shall I do when would like his wife to have, or you have time to modulate the tones he does tell me? How can I make she more charin. more of your voice and also to be sure you myself thoroughly Independent of not? Has tolerance, more brains, more beauty say the right thing. You might try: him, spiritually as well as financial-
Yes, she has the right calouring for jy?"
V. M. GRAYBURN, than you?
For heaven's sake, don't put your- black," which will sound neither too
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Hongkong, 10th May, 1937. discussing her with your husband, unless he introduces the subject. Time for silence
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how your words about her
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Sup when the cause for jealousy is he resources. a grand-lady manner, or in a patron- wit sound to some one else. isingly sweet attitude that would pose he says. "Dear, why don't you tual. Suppose you learn on the best
Can
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Your husband wonders what in the mare of heaven is wrong with you, and, if he is thoroughly mas- culine, he suspects.
When you meet her
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You won't envy Shirley Temple
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SAY, here's one reason for not being a film star apart from all the really horrid reasons like having to diet and all that sort of thing.
seems
Well it
that Shirley Temple is having to wear false teeth because she is just losing her baby teeth, and the permв- nent ones haven't grown in yet. Film stars can't look beautiful with gap teeth.
All the same, Shirley Temple is voted to be the most popular star of 1937, so it must be worth it, plate and all.
HAVE always thought chestnut the that stuffing was almost the best thing about roast turkey, but why wait for turkey when you can have the stuffing by itself? Here is an chsy way to cook chestnuts.
First cut their tops off nnd half roost them, then take off
the shells and
the brown skin Inside, and stew them in a sauce
milk and Jittle pan. with a water.
When they are, soft, mash them them up, or, better still put through a sleve, and add a little
and pepper. Or sugar prefer them as a kind pudding.
solt
you
of
IF you haven't already
heard it, here is a per- fectly mad story about a railway guard.
Well, it seems that this guard about to signal the train out when he found that his whis- 1le wouldn't blow.
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He looked at it and found that the pen which should have been inside it was missing. So he dashed down the platform to the tea room and asked them if they hnd anything that would do in-
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Find an escape
What talent have you that you can turn into money?
At first you'll stlp back, often. Oh, what's the use of this? cares what I do?
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Infatuation wears' off, you know,
If you literally leave your husband and this, other woman together of ten enough and long enough, they are likely to solve this problem for you,
Whether you'receive him like the prodigal son will depend entirely upon his temperament; usually it's better to make no fuss at all.
Now, if ever, can you afford to be generous. You fought your bat- tle all by yourself. And you won.
All they could find-after a lot
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