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THE HONGKONG TELEGRAPH. TUESDAY,
JANUARY
11,
HE WON'T PROPOSE... EH?
Well, this is what
Second section of American
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Husband-and keep
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it.
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this week Page 10.
on
O he won't propose? He's committed himself so far as saying you're marvellous. He's even ad-
admitted you loved him too.
But nothing came of it; he didn't follow up with "Will you marry me?" as you expected he would.
Several months have passed. They've been thrilling months so far as you're concerned. But they don't impress anybody cise.
Your family for instance, is becoming conscious of the fact that you're out with Bob almost exclusively; that you've dropped all your other men friends; that you've taken to dreaming in the late afternoon sitting in the window-seat or before the fire; that you've lost interest in everything that Hob doesn't gure in; that you're ill at case, sleeping badly. losing your appetite and generally, bentiving like the dog who's lost his master, Bad for your Pride
sure
OR Bob husn't Fe words wint make you
Your pride burns of him. with mortification when your family mention his name: you've used i the excuses that you think they'll accept (even to saying you're not sure you really think he's the one for you) and you're so humilluted you can't be natural.
loves you, but must be You
to
You know Bob that is not enough. able to acknowledge that fact, Gaunt It, before all your little world. How can you make him propose? Sometimes it'a a dependent mother who prevents the netual offer marriage.
ог
of
Too often it is sheer negligence, cowardice, or a satisfaction with And why in- things as they are. deed shouldn't Bob he satisfied with things as they are?
12"
He knows the door of your home is always open to him; he knows he has your welcome and your love; he likes to spend his spare evenings with you. at your hume or else- where;
and, subconsciously. doceni want to relinquish his in- dependence, the freedom that men talk about far more than girls do, Wants to be Free
ot he has
the idea, im- Dis mun pregnated by friends, that once he is married he is sunk sunk inside of those four walls that are his new home, alone with you. While that idea to him in Inviting, he fears it will belittle of his friends, him in the minds who'll declare he's married now and no longer available for poker par- ties, etc.
So
Bob does nothing about St. He continues to enjoy your family's hospitality, keeping you away from dates with other men (which, even
which you
you don't desire them, have their value) and generally taking every- thing: and giving nothing but the assurance of his love, know you have anyway. Try This
HERE'S one piece of advice
for you: The next time
be enlls tell him you have another date. If he's gut in the habit of coming without calling you frat, the next time he arrives,
come down
the stairs wearing a new evening frock. Assume a my air, and say something like:--
"Oh, I'm going to the theatre. Ring me first next time." And dis- appear as suddenly-even
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I may be you're so lucky you won't have to invent another young 212271. Several may be ramping on your doorstep. If this is so use one ur two of them by all means. Don't make dates ahead of time with the man you want to marry: just say, "I'm sorry, you'l have to call me art Friday. I may have another clite."
Give him a Shock
NOME
SOM men need
terrill
shock-the fear of losing the girl they love-in order to reailse how much they really love her.
They must face the possibility of losing her in order to learn how
much she means to them, even after
hey have declared their love.
Perhaps this shock is what your young man needs, It
seems cruel
to do about
to
it
He
He's been nicely, brought up to like a home, with an eye slightly wander- ing but a foot that never strays. He's been taught to value honesty
affection. and Integrity and wants a home of his own, a wife he can be proud He wants her to
of. be interesting to talk to thrilling to make
ta. He wants her 10
love
know something (but not too much) about other men.
After what he regards as a sut- felent courtship, he expects her to collapse in his arms.
This young man is the answer to must maidens' prayers. But she make the mistake of col- mustn't lapsing in his orms too soon.
น
It is better that he discover she Interesting to talk to before he knows whether or not he may klas her.
But
It sounds simple, doesn't it?
It Isn't, always.
Keep your Head
IT
[T isn't hard to analyse the man you're in love with,
If you'll only keep your head."
When you're out with him, study butterfly him as though he were a
on a pin. Give him the advantage and the compliment of your most serious attention-which he should be giving you but isn't. Know his reactions to your certain moods, and decide whether you love them or hate them. (You can do both.)
What. In most important, study his faults rather than his virtues. De- cide within
"You must know your
man in order to wring a declaration of marriage from him."
two
on the Tave of it--but what is a girl his to do?
think you reached such a point, try this type who rerails at the
J'ou
your own mind
whether you can live with those faults iwenty- four hours a day, accentuated
they will be close hand.
as at
Little Irritating gestures.
ture-
lessly pronounced phrases;
small
habits dress.
your
ing or of ing; trite opinions arrogantly ex- pressed, which infuriate sense of justice; attitude toward children and older people, which you cannot re- have concile with his other kindnesACS,
All these things you must con sm of hottle, sider before you can decide whether put him to the test and let him prove you want to live your life with him. himself. You can always call him Remember that after marriage his faults will become magnifled in your eyes and his virtues sometimes di- minished, in that association which marriage unfolds.
back.
Study Him
You must know your man -in-order.to.wring.a.declara
tion of love from him.
Is he an exotist? Hang on his subile word. Administer a overy
More Ta-morrow-
form of flattery he hasn't heard be- CONSIGNEES NOTICE.
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fure. You
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He will be floored by the fact that the Great I-Am can command the who is Public attention of a girl Wonder No. 1 in her own field.
Does he
sit quietly in
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Thu. Sal
aur br
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(Stinson)
(Blinson)
15.10 17.10
15.10
17.10
LY CHUNKING Ar Ar CHENGTU LV
10.00
14.30
8,00
12.30
Bat.
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ACROSS
1 The incitement is apparently in
favour of one's employment (11).
Skin to conceal (1).
10 "China tea set" (anag) (11). 11 "And how can man die better
than facing fearful (Mnenulay) (4).
14
"Felt aly" (anag) (When thou weri upset?) (7).
17 There has been much lighting
over this river (5).
18 The hen that may be the means of propagating some plants (5). 10 Mediterranean island known in
song (5),
20 You want to go by car (5). 21 This disappeared from the House of Commons a few years ago (5).
22 Mean apparently in a mia-
"chievous way (5).
23 French resort (5).
24 "Skate" (anag.) (5). 25 Horrible (7).
32 Introduce well with decent ap- 20 This begina to tempt a man to
bet (4)..
pearance (11), 33 "And like another Helen, fired "Alex- (Dryden; another " ander's Fenst") (4).
34 Without significance yet ap- parently signifying not so much (11).
DOWN
2 Offensive status (4),
3 More than one of this opinion
men get from their wives (4),
4 A musical composition or the
contents of the credl might be a bit of a trap (8).
5 Lock (0).
0 Oxford College (5).
Tel. 33131.
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A "parlour" game for the chil- dren (11). What Indies slimming would like to do is beyond computation (11).
12 To do this suggests a previous
design (11).
13 The excellence that ig being
different (11).
14 The sort of rent that keeps up
the price of tea? (7).
15 What is this is generally filed
with air (5).
10 Epithet for an irresponsible nlr-
man (7).
19 Town of Italy (5).
20 Troop that sounds Ilke a store
(5). 27 Iler heart is in America (5).
28 The stuff that upret a Russian
(5)
30 A chilly greeting (4),
31 This is generally marked by a
'cross. (4).
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