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LOST ILLUSION

This is the sixth instal ment of the life story of an English-woman who became an ardent Communist and went to live in Russia. Now reconverted, she sounds a convincing warning against the Red menace.

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ANE Tabrisky and I were not long in Moscow without sen- asing the terror then in full operation against non-Par- ty intellectuals.

FREDA

BY

UTLEY

families

The Problem

Of

Jealousy

TEALOUSY the least The doctor argues that "it is. human omotions has been sible for abnormal jealousy."

early youth that are respon-

of the the small wounds received in

..

It often staris when a mother |

to

given its first full-dress scientific examination. Dr-makes a favourite of a certain Boris Sokoloff, a psycholo- child and

BO Arolsea the gist working in America, jealousy of the others. explains it-and.exposes its A mild degre of Jealousy dangers:

can sometimes be turned ucivantage. The doctor tells of a case of a woman who, when- ever she wanted her husband to play a good game of tennio agninal ber. first made hin Jealous by other man,

Mrs X, 4 gray-haired woman of 47, lashed by Jealousy into o frenzied rage, raced her car up a dead-end alley and crushed her cowering husband to death.

"I loved my husband very dearly,' "she said, when arrested."

This excerpt from Dr

Sokoloff's record "Jeal- ousy a Psychological

Study is typical of mur-

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talking to some

But that is provoking Jealousy dellberately usually highly dangerous, the doctor warns,

There are people, for example, who get un-

healthy pleasure out of mental suffering. who may enjoy being made jealous.

This explains the behaviour of the jealous husband who in- vites other men home knowing his wife will flirt with them.

der casca in which the Jury recommends mercy or even acquittal on the ground that "violence was pro- voked by uncontrollable emotion arising out of love.”

Such verdicts are always wrong. the doctor Jealousy is never the by-pro- Just as jealousy is bred in duct of genuine affection. It the childhood home, so it must arises from pride and wounded be cured there-by the parents. vanity-from love of self, not true love.

Moys.

And like most other psycho- logical disorders it is usually traceable to incidents In child- hood.

THREE DEGREES HIE doctor says there are three degrees of jealousy among adults:---

T

REACTION.

The jealous This is the sort of feeling a normal man gets when he seca his wife flirting at a party. It is an instinctive impulse which was part of the defen- sive make-up of our uncivilised ancestors.

The

Mothers should specially avoid excessive attention to a child who is

crippled or has some other disability. He may grow up to demand the some treatment from the woman he marrles.

If there are two daughters in the family, and

one 13 much prettier

ttier than the other, parents should explait: the dangers of Jealousy to the plain one.

Dr Sokoloff belleves that mothers should even interfere in their children's love affairs when jealousy arises,

"If mother is aware that some boy is jealous of her girl the should stop the romance," he writes.

maid could be dispensed with, since they could cat dinner in the stolovaya

(res- taurant) of the factory or office, whom Arendi had worked buy, and three hard ctairs.

But if there were children, abroad, Ben whom we We kept our clothes in our food must be found for them knew as loyal and selfless trunks and our books and somehow. The great majority specialists. He could not toilet articles on the win-

who

employed believe them Kuilty

domestic workers did

so in of dow sill or on the floor. counter-revolutionary

spite of their poverty,

or bc.

The danger? "The Jealousy, of cause of their poverty. EnoughImaging his wife flirting at a

of jealousy which makes a man a bay is the reaction of a tivity and sabotage nor

food for the children could admit their arrest was Novinsky Boulevard

be bought only if both parents was worked; but other than accidental, n

someone must mistake which would be for many a year.

the best we were to know do the shopping. rectified.

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Nevertheless,

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2 The Jealous SENTIMENT. This is a constant feeling

grown man without the self- party before they get there. It control of an adult."

is due to over-stimulation ΟΙ

his jealous reactions.

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ployers, and in part to the

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This is an obsession which THE doctor stresses that the arlses wlien people with #t

treatment of established jealous sentiment begin jealousy is difficult, but can be brood on It.

successful. The rann

with a

a jealous com- When only jealous reactions plex becomes morbidly sus are involved a couple should MAKE YOUR DOLLAR WORTH MORE picious of his wife or sweet- be completely frank with each heart. Without any real grounds other. "The wife who he belleves she is unfaithful jealous when her husband is and is always scheming to attentive to another girl should trap her.

However hard he tell him so," the doctor recom- tries, he cannot banish the mends. "Never hide your pride idea.

in silence."

complex has set in COMPLEX ON WAY Once No Protection

the direct approach is useless. NE of the commonest dan- A wife should never bluntly ΟΝΕ

of being ger signs that a complex is accuse her husband

with

She on the way is when a partner obsessed

Jealousy. harps on trivial incidents. The should lead up to the subject wife who makes a scene be- gradually, even suggesting that herself to get cause

husband her

danced she is

is Jealous the discussion going. twice with the sume wojnan

" (and keepa the row up for

she keeps referring to the hours) is on the way to serious stupidity of fealousy Indirectly for some weeks It may cure psychological trouble.

Often the complex acts in subtle way. Unwilling to admit To the wife whose husband that she is jealous, a woman is

so jealous that he is for ever may unconsciously henpeck her causing vlolent scenes, Dr Sokolo gives this advice: "She She will criticise his manners must insist that her husband. Dr his clothes.

undergo medical treatment. A She may even try to project jealous person is under the her weakness and necuse her power of his obsession, but if husband or being the Jealous a reasonable solution is offered

he might accept it." partner.

I learned also to be a wife Skharevsky Market, that I than in

day was incomparably better Every specialist, however in its primitive sense. It first witnessed the terrible the girl had to work 10 hours the village, even if loyal and long his service, was my job to keep my exploitation of servants, out of 24. feared arrest, for the

man alive by seeing that Our landlord and landlady Government laid the he was fed and had shel- here had "domestic blame for the food short-

He worked so hard worker." age brought about by its and so late at the office agrarian policy upon the that I, with my regular

YORK in the factories (even wretched non-Party engi- sevan

She was a peasant girl WORK hours of useless neers, agronomists, Lech labour at the Comintern, until midnight, cleaning, left the village and whether If obtainable without close worked from 7 a.m. probing into and

why they had nicians and administrators, took over the job of shop- cooking. washing. and their parents scientists and professors, ping,

were Kulaks) cooking, cleaning standing in line at the would not secure them a shel- Stalin sought scapegoat and washing. for the masses, so

that

shops. The latter occupa- fer. So they went to work as tion was most strenuous they would not blame the ruling party for the univer

and painful. For to stand

Unprotected by Soviet law in line in the cold Russian

or by Russian custom, servants winter, whon you have could be exploited mercilessly.husband on some other pretext. these domestic tasks it neither proper footwear There was no alternative for tants, technicians, teachers, was the shopping which nor a really warm coat, is the except starvation. On the

The search ngony. This girl had nei had little moral sense.

other band, they naturally doctors, and those with exhausted me. administrative experience, from shop to shop for food, ther or knowledge of trade and the long standing in line to good meat or fish meals To be religious

sal misery and disorganisa-

'tion of life, This included

all-the-educated-accoun-- _OF

finance.

Domestic Tasks

Nor did she cat the

servants.

obtain our brend ration she prepared. She lived taniount to

was tan- being considered every evening, the bar on soup, black bread and counter-revolutionary. So freed gaining with the peasants cereals, with an occasional of moral and religious inhibi- Stalin, who had a patho- al the street corner in bit of herring.

tions, they stole. logical hatred for educated exchanging bread for milk,

The first mien and women, was became my real work. doing his bost to liquidate

leon the Soviet

At night she slept on the citizen has to learn is that floor of the kitchen. The promises and contracts meat the intellectuals as a class. The peasants, deprived Kazaika (house mistress) ment cheats its citizens all the nothing ut alf. The govern- of all their grain and cowed her, bullied her and time in big things and little, 1 felt the prison house fodder by a merciless drove her. The girl was and every offleint behaves in was closing in upon me, government, wanted bread often in tears and always the same way. Only foolish

foreigners, newly arrived

As it appeared more cer- to feed their cows. There sad and miserable. When Moscow, think that the letter

or

or the

tain that Arcadi would had developed a "new and we asked why she did not of the law, come to Moscow, my spirits higher form of economy" leave, she said she would contract, *sunk.. Whereas in 1927 under the Soviets whereby be treated similarly any mise, have any

and 1928 I had longed to the peasants produced where else, and she Russia, live in the USSR, now I milk for the townspeople couldn't go to work in a dreaded it. I was being in exchange for bread to factory since she had no rapidly initiated into the produce that milk. terror and the ghostly suffering, of Soviet life.

Life Together

Hundreds of thousands

room to live in.

Exploitation

the written spoken pro- 'incaning in

There stantis out

in my

memories of life in Moscow

a picture of the snowy street outside our apartment house along which I went to the office. Some construction work wan going on near by, and every morning I saw carts

her husband.

They're All Asking To Entertain Churchill

By FREDERICK COOK NEW YORK.

Indication of the way tele- RITISH officials all over vision is growing is the news that rates for visunt advertising America have A. new

are now approaching those char- task these days-fending ged for radio time. off without hurting their One of the big televiator feelings, all the scores of chains will slap on a 25 percent increase on April 1, fling the entertain Mr Churchill. people who would like to fee to £315-an-hour on its New York City station. This is only Since the official announce- £25-an-hour less than is charg- ment of his visit next month, ed for radio time. letters representing hundreds at people have poured into the Embassy

of peasants near the cities of Russia spent their timo travelling to and from their IN some of the old apart full of bricks or wooden planks ar farms and standing in the ment houses I saw 1s drawn by thin, miserable

FARLY on New Year's market Ο street corners many as five or six families horses.

The Flat

Misery And Want

COMPETITION for British Washington, the various offices of British Infor- Overseas Airways and for mation Services, and consulates the US airlines are the free all over the country.

drinks being offered to passen- Hundreds of other inquiries gers by Air France, Swissair,

Belgian have been made either by long- and the

and Dutch distance telephone or directly of lines. British amcials and British Air France gives travellers an residents.

aperitif, a bottle of wine with small bottle of

Day, 1931, I met my selling milk

few all sharing one kitchen. A or 11 husband at the station. miserable vegetables. To young Russian whom I had We began life together, in arrange that one of their known at the London one small room, but in number la the selling School of Economics, and FTEN the carls got stuck in An official said: These in- lunch and a visibly separated by my while the others worked who lived in one room with O

the ruts in the thick snow, and quiries have to be handled with champagne-all free of charge. lost hopes and the hopes on the land was forbidden. his wife and child, shared the drivers, dressed in rags of great tact. They are a tremen- The Dutch offer choice of gin or

dous compliment, and they show cocktails. ho was determined not to The seller would have been a toilet and kitchen with sucking, whipped the horsea

the immense In British and Ainerican acro- beyond doubt mercilessly. The breath of the lose..

punished as a middle-man: 35 other people.

struggling horses and men

affection in which Mr Churchill planen drinks are charged for. Several families in one cold wintry air. I used to hurry formed a thick steam in the

is held by all classes of people Prices are moderate-35. for a here.

Scotch and soda or a pink gin on I had begun working at

apartment would each along, trying not to see, the "If he accepted a tenth of the BOAC. But efforts are being the Comintern before he

to get haye a servant. It was bored on the horsea nor hear Invitations he would have to made

uniformity of arrived. He took up work

not uncommon for three or their panting. Iforses and men spend a year here, and a busy practice. at. Promexport.

Each MANAGED to rent a room four servants to sleep to sufferings of the animats were

alike were starved, and the one at that."

COMEWHERE in America are evening I cut him with my

on Novinsky Boule- gether in the kitchen, side only one degree worse than cynical comments upon my vard, The owner, once a by side on the floor or on those of the wrecks of human

RUSIEST spot in the American a handful of men who know futile work in the Comin sailor, was working at the the kitchen tabla, Buga beings who drove them.

shops just now is the bar where several millions of dollars tern, and gibed at the Soviet Consulate in London, ran over them at night,

gain basements. Upstairs sales are hidden but who are afrald marvels of Soviet "so- His two daughters rented and the atomsphere, was 80 lective farms the peasants dell-

It was said that on the col. girls report business still trend- to go and get it.

They are the surviving hench- ing downward a little, but down men of the Inte Dutch Schultz, cialist" construction, which me a room at the "commet fetid and foul that one berately worked the horses to

below they are having a busy one-time Public Enemy Number I said could better be clal price" that is to say, hesitated to go in to boil death so that they might got called the construction of I paid more for the one water.

Most retall prices still show a ment to eat. An Inhuman sys-

G-men are satisfied that in the conditions for famine. He room than they paid for

tem made men treat their bensta downward tendency.

York meat of the cheaper cuts last month of his life Schultz's

enterprises

at grossed

Icast immersed himself in his the whole flat.

The employers of these girls na cruelly as the government were often little hetter off them- treated them, and with as little

is now id. to 3d. a lb. cheaper. £300,000. Despite

years of work and closed his cars

Some of the choicer stenks nave searching, they have never been selves. A family of four to a thought of preserving life, Cold,

been slashed 6d. alb, to my bitter criticism.

The floors were of atone;” room, feeding poorly, would hire snow, misery and want were

able to find his money. Government statisticians have and we had no carpet. servant mainly in order to the background of life in Rus-

discovered that for the first time Meanwhile, tho Torror The only furniture was a have someone to stand in Hae at sin.

In Ave years Amerienria have struck closer and

stopped eating ateaks closer single bed I had brought the shops for food.

faster If husband and wife both amall

than they grow them--the civil home, carrying off to con- from England, a

worked at a largo enterprise

servanta way of predicting still contration camps men with table I had managed to and there were no children,

lower prices.

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