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HE

THE HONGKONG TELEGRAPH. TUESDAY,

WON'T

PROPOSE... EH?

Well, this is what to do

Second section of American

best-seller "How to win

Husband-and

keep

him.”

Anne

Hirst wrote it.

The

Telegraph is serialising

it each day this week on

Page

10.

O he won't propose? He's committed himself so

Sfar as saying you're marvellous. He's even ad-

admitted you loved him too.

But nothing came of it; he didn't follow up with "Will you marry me?" as you expected he would.

Several months have passed. They've been thrilling months so far as you're concerned. But they don't impress anybody cise.

Your family for instance, is becoming conscious of the fact that you're out with Bob almost exclusively; that you've dropped all your other, men friends; that you've taken to dreaming in the late afternoon sitting in the window-seat or before the Bre; that you've lost interest in everything that Bob doesn't figure in that you're ill at ease, sleeping badly, losing your appetite and generally, behaving like the dog who's lost his master. Bad for your Pride

sure

FOR Bob hasn't yet said

the words that make you Your pride burns of him. with moriification when your family mention his name; you've used all the excuses that you think they'll to saying you're not necept (even

sure you really think he's the one so humiliated (or you) and you're you can't be natural.

loves you, but must be 10

know Bob You that is not enough. You able to neknowledge that fact, Haunt it, before all your little world. How can you make him propose? Sometimes it's a dependent mother prevents the actual offer

who

marriage.

of

Too often It is sheer negligence, or cowardice, or a satisfaction with things as they are. And why in- deed shouldn't Bub be satisfied with things as they are?

He knows the door of your home ·

is always open to him, he knows he

he

has your welcome and your love; he likes to spend his spare evenings with

you, at your home or else- where;

and, subconsciously, doesn't want to relinquish his in- dependence, the freedom" that men talk about fur more than girls do. Wants to be Free

FOR he has

pregnated

the idea, im- by his inen friends, that once he is married he is sunk-sunk inside of those four walls that are his new home, alone with you. While that idea to him is inviting, he fears. It will belittle of his friends, him in the minds who'll declare he's married now and no longer available for poker par- ties, ele.

about it.

So Bob does nothing He continues to enjoy your family's hospitality, keeping you away from dates with other men (which, even it don't desire them, have their

you value) and generally taking every- thing and giving nothing but the of his love, which you assurance know you have anyway.

Try This

ERE'S one plece of advice The next time.

ΟΙ

Hyou! he calls tell him you have another. date. If he's got in the habit coming without calling you first, the nexi time he arrives, come down new evening the stairs wearing a frock, Assume a gay air, and say something like:--

to the theatre, "Oh. I'm going

And dis-. Ring me first next time."

as suddenly--even appear

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only to your bedroom, where you take off that new gown, drop on the bed and ery yourself to sleep.

It may be you're so lucky you won't have to invent another young man. Several may camping on If this is so use one your doorstep. or two of them by all means. Don't make dates ahead of time with the man you want to marry: just say, "I'm sorry, you'll have to call me Friday. I may have another dale."

оп

Give him a Shock

NOME men need a terrifle SOME

shock-the fear of losing the girl they love-In order to realise how much they really love her.

They must Ince the possibility of losing

•fd»f-11-fl1

about

it

He's been nicely brought up to like

a home, with an eye slightly wander. ing but n foot that never strays. He's been taught to value honesty Ile affection. and integrity and wants a horne of his own, a wife he can be proud of. He wants her to to talk to, thrilling to be interesting

love to. He wants her to make know something (but not too much) about other men.

After what he regards as a suf- kelent courtship, he expects her to collapse in his arms.

This young man is the answer to she most maldens' prayers. But mustn't make the mistake of col lapsing in his arms too coon.

It is belter that he discover she Is interesting to talk to before he knows whether or not he may kh her.

It sounds simple, doesn't it? It isn't, always.

Keep your Head

But

IT isn't hard to analyse the man you're in love with,

If you'll only keep your head.

When you're out with him, study hin as though he were a butterfly the advantage on a pin. Give him

of your most and the compliment serious attention-which he should be giving you but isn't. Know his reactions to your certain moods, and decide whether you love them or hate them. (You can do both.)

ama

What is most important, study his faults rather than his virtues. De- mind within cide

your

own whether you can Jive with those faults twenty- four hours a day, accentuated DA

"You must know your man in order to wring a declaration of marriage

from him."

they will be at close hand.

Little irritating 'gestures, care- lessly pronounced phrases;

small

habits rese

or of triic opinions ing; trin arrogantly pressed, infuriale

on the face of it but what is a girl his attitude toward

think

to du?

It

You

.you

CX- which

your

sense of justice:

children

and older people, which you cannot re- two, have conelle with his outer kindnesses. reached such a point, try this type All these things you must con- who recoils at the sign of battle, sider before you can decke whether put him to the test and let him prove you want to live your life with him. himself. You can always call him Remember that after marriage his back.

faults will become magnited in your eyes and his virtues sometimes di- minished, in that association which marriage unfolds.

Study Him

You must know your mun In order to wring a declara- tion of "love" from him.

Is he an egotist?

every

Hung on his word. Administer a subtle form of flattery he hasn't heard be- fore. You must be proficient in some line yourself, but in one which does not in any sense conflict with his

lie will be floored by the fact that the Great 1-Am can command the attention of a girl who is Public Wonder No. 1 in her own field.

Is he shy?

Does he sit quietly in

a corner and listen, while misguided women chalter their heads off try ing to break down his shyness? que "The

#irl who gets her name writ- ten on his marriage certificate is the ne who is smart enough to see that he really doesn't want to listen, but wants to talk.

More To-morrow

CONSIGNEES' NOTICE. SERVICES CONTRACTUELS DES

MESSAGERIES MARITIMES.

The Steamship

"ANDRE LEBON" No. 4 A/38 Bringing Cargo from Marseilles vin Saigon ele, arrived on Sunday,

th January, 1938, at 1.00 a.m.

Consignees are hereby informed that their goods with the exception of Opium, Treasure and Valuables are being landed and stored into the Godown of the Hongkong Kowloon Wharf and Godown Co., Ltd., Kow- loon, whence delivery may be ob- tained immediately after landing.

Is he the playboy type? You'll have to determine what your part

All claims musi ho sent in to me is going to be und stick to it. Ether outplay him, run circles round him, on or before 19th January, 1938, or be gayer and brighter than he is they will not be recognized.

Damaged Packages will be examin- or else be it wren from start to

the ed by

Company's Surveyor Naish.

Messrs: Goddard and Douglas in man who likes the lime- the presence of the Consignees at The light has probably been snared by both types, and until you study your 10.00 am. on Saturday, 15th January,

1938. prey face to face you can't tell which, method is the more likely to make you la femme fatale for litm.

her in order to learn how If you're Lucky.

much she means to them, even after they have declared their love.

Perhaps this shock is what your young man needs.

THE

IL

Omeer in attendance when any duti Consignees must have a Rvcenue able goods are examined by the Company's Surveyors.

No Fire Insurance will be effected AYBE your young man is by us in any case whatever.

common-or-garden

MAY

seems cruel variety. If he is, thank your stars.

SWEDISH EAST ASIATIC

M.S. "NIPPON"

M.S. "NAGARA”

M.S. "SHANTUNG"

M.S. "NANKING"

.29th Jan.

Da LTB

6th Mar. 29th Mar. .28th Apr.

HONGKONG to ANTWERP or LONDON

£53

(Fares for "NIPPON" from £58.10.0.) (Excellent accommodation still offering for a limited number of passengers.)

Agenta:

GILMAN & CO. ITU, Hongkong.

G. E. HUYGEN. Canton,

MESSAGERIES MARITIMES. Hongkong, 9th January, 1938,

SERVICES.CONTRACTUELS DES MESSAGERIES MARITIMES.

The Steamship

"COMMANDANT DORISE" No. 2 AEO/38 Bringing Cargo from Dunkirk via Haiphong, etc., arrived Hongkong on Saturday, 8th January, 1938.

Consignees are hereby Informed that their goods with the exception of Oplum, Treasure and Valuables are being landed and stored into the

JANUARY 11, 1938.

BANKS

HONGKONG AND SHANGHAI DANKING CORPORATION.

Authorised Capital.... $50,000,000 Issued and Fully Pald-Up.... $20,000,000 Reserve Fundam

Sterling

....................... & 0,500,000 Ilangkong Currency Reserve $10,000,000 Reserve Llebility of Proprietors $20,000,000

HEAD OFFICE:—HONGKONG. BOARD OF DIRECTOR::--

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Chairman.

Hon. Mr. M. T. JohnsOT,

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Information and rates from

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0,00 am. Jan, 20. .Feb. 8.

.Feb. 23.

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HANKOW-CHUNGKING TIME TABLE

Direct Service (Via Hankow until further notiro.)

NORTH BOUND (Read Down) SOUTH BOUND (Read Up)

(DC-2) Frl.

(Dolphin) 8.00 14.00

STATION

LV HONGKONG

Ar. CHUNG KING

Ar LV

Mon.

Thurs.

(DC-2)

14.00

8.00

HANKOW-CHENGTU TIME TABLE

EAST BOUND (Read Up)

Sun Tue, Mon, Wed,

WEST BOUND (Read Down)

Mon, Wed. | Sun.

Fri.

(DC-2) (Loenlag)

Tue.

Sat.

STATION

Thu. SAL

Fri.

(Loening)

(DC-2)

11.45

8.00

LV HANKOW

Ar

-17:10

11.13

9.40

LY SHASI

LV

15.45

10.40

LY ICHANG

Lv

14.45

13.00

LY WANUSIEN LV

12.23

15.00

14.40

Ar CHUNKING LV

10.30

8.00

Ipoh Ilotto

Saigon

Man. Wed.

Sun. Tue,

Bun. Mon, Wed, Fri.

Semarang

Fri.

Thu. Sat.

The. Thu.

(Stinson)

Karachi

Seremban

Klalle

Shanghai

Sat.

Singapore

(Stinson)

(Stinson)

(6tlasou)

Sitiawan

Canion Cawnpore'

Lumpur Kuching

Sourabaya

Talping

15.10 17.10

15.10.

17.10

LV CHUNKING Ar Lv Ar CHENGTU

10.00 8.00

14.80

12.80

Tientsin

Manila

Tongkah

Medan

(Bhuket)

New York

Taingino

Peiping

Yokohama

(Peking)

Zamboanga

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Rangoon

Juo de Janeiro

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Semarang

Shanghai

Singapore

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Sydney

*Tientsin

(Mukden)

New York

Taingizo

Dinru

Tokyo Yingkow

(Dalny) Fengilen

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Bonolulu

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Osakn

Paris

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THE BURNS, PHILP LINE

From MELBOURNE, SYDNEY SALAMAUA, RABAUL and

MANILA.

The Mator Vessel

"NEPTUNA" Consignees of Cargo are hereby informed that all Goods are being landed at their risk into the hazar- dous and/or extra hazardous Go-

For further information please apply to:

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King's Bldg., Connaught Road

Tel. 33131.

OUR BRITISH CROSSWORDS

10.

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126

1 The incitement is apparently in favour of one's employment (11).

@ Skin to conceal (4).

10 "China tea set" (anag.) (11). 11 "And how can man die better

tearful facing than

downs of The Hongkong and Kowloon 14 (Macaulay) (4).

phy (anng.) (When thou wert upset?) (7).

Whart & Godown Co., Ltd., whence and/or from the wharves delivery 17 There has been much Oghting may be obtained.

No claims will be admitted after the Goods have left the Godowns, and all Goods remaining undelivered after the 12th January, 1938, will be subject to rent.

over this river (5).

18 The hen that may be the means of propagating some plants (5). 18 Mediterranean island known in

song (5). 20 You want to go by car. (B). 21 This disappeared House of Commons ARO (5).

from The few years

in П mals

steamer All claims against the must be presented to the Undersign- ed on or before the 26th January, 1038, or they will not be recognized.

22 Mean apparently To comply with the General Bond- chievous way (5). ed Warehouse Regulations consigneca 21 French resort (5) must have a Revenue Omeer in at 24 Skata" (anag.) (5). tendance when damaged dutiable 25 Horrible (7), goods are examined.

Godown of the Hongkong. Kowloon All broken, chofed, and damaged 29 This begins to tempt a man to

where they will be examined on the 11th January, 1038, at 10 a.m. by Messrs. Goddard and Douglas.

Wharf and Godown Co. Lld., Kow-Goods are to be left in the Godowns, loon, whence delivery may be obtained immediately after landing.

All claims must be sent in to me, on or before 19th January, 1930, or they will not be recognized,

Damaged packages will be examin- ed by the Company's Surveyors Messrs:-Goddard and Douglas in the presence of the Consigners at 10.50 n.m. on Saturday, 15th January, 1938. Consignees must have a Revenue Officer in attendance when any dutl- |able goods are examined by the Com-

pany's Surveyors.

No Fire Insurance will be effected by us in any case whatever.

MESSAGERIKS MARITIMES CO. Hongkong, 0th January, 1038.

eii.

No Fire Insurance has been effect-

Bills of Lading will be counter- signed by.

GIBB, LIVINGSTON & CO. LTD.

Hongkong, 5th January, 1930.

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Agents,

COUNT, THE TELEGRAPHS'

EVERYWHERE

bet (4).

32 Introduce welt with decent op-

pearance (11). 33 "And like another Helen, fired "Alex- another

(Dryden; ander's Fens!") (4). 34 Without significance yet up- parently signifying not so much (11).

DOWN

2 Offensive status (4).

3 More than one of this opinion

men get from their wives (4),

4 A musical composition or the

contents of the creel might be a blt of a trap (5).

6 Lock (5),

0 Oxford Collega (3),

115

116

7 A "parlour" game for the chil-

dren (11). What ladies slimming would like to do is beyond computation

(11).

12 To do this suggests a previcus

design (11),

13 The excellence that is being

different (11).

14 The sort of rent that keeps up

the price of tea? (7)..

15. What is this is generally, filled

with air (5).

10 Epithet for an irresponsible air-

man (7).

10 Town of Itnly (5),

28 Troop that sounds like, a store

(5).

27 Her heart is in Americà (3), 28 The stuff that upset a Russian

(B)

30 A chilly greeting (4).

31 This is generally marked by a

Cross (4).

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