1 THE CHINA MAIL, THURSDAY, JUNE 29, 1961.
WOMANSENSI
SHIRLEY LORD HONEYMOONS:
Whoever spread the myth around?
She told me: "I was under
How did the honey. they are alone people smile
knowingly, but keep right away contract to Rank at the time and
moon get its good almost as if they had sudden- they sent along a photographer reputation that's what ty contracted a contagious dis- with us. We caly had four days tare, most unnerving for any I'd like to know?
Temperumeni.
Believe me, it's even worse if your husband proudly taken you
and we eculdn't get rid of him unit the fourth....by that time we were at each other's throats? Who started off the Mining white lie that honeymoons are,
11! "Also we chose
Isle of nade of bliss and kiss with to a pince he knows" intinaidly. Arran, berause we thought it VIT a cross word Spalten. Every waiter, every clon- would be sufficiently away from Somebody Obviously in
her maid, knows at about is it all, rough and craggy and all hotel business,
holiday exploits of other years, that, so only tock chunky
the
He spends much time panting sweaters and a pair of Jodhpurs. vingly to certain places
....
resouth
A clirip of trees, mybe under "I was rough and craggy, but the shade of which he tells you it was also the hatte t
nee rat reading your letters they'd
ONE EXTRA
Siure cur nursery days we've all known what fille girl and (sugar and boys are made spier and slug, and shalls, rea- pretively, to log your memory), ዝዞ . a useful description of what Laneymoons are made of 14:5 never been passed down from generation to generation,
1 slew for THE view he wants only a romantie myth I've met few eople who ad- you is spoilt by the fact that
can't
wondering help inifted their honestree lived you
whether he 12 any chaner, up to expectations,
shared it with anybody else.... The past can almost blot out the
ever hast und There
clidn't
Just
(you hope they were yours)... were no horses,
A jodhpurs and sweated and sweated. It was so much away from all f couldn't buy any more clothes. Really it was quite terrible,"
On the other hand "qulie perfect" was Ruth Marples's honeymoon with Ernest five years ago.
What other social system puts such
strain th է է young prepeval. couple?
KNOWINGLY
FTER weeks and weeks of Abring the centre of over- whelming attention, after days of being showered with presents alter The compliments,
ຕາເ
Day of Achievement, suddenly
JACOBY
FIFTY years
hand would
ag the
"During the Parliamentary moral they arrived in Majorea weess, we took a Land Rover duration not fixed.
. Make such a converted into living quarters life one long honeymoon, it's
over to Spain and Portugal," the only answer. the maid me sunnfly,
This analysis may sound like An unfair attack Romantic Instilubon and cer- tainly it's difficult to think of a superler arrangement certainly tak izg party of Friends along
would ruin the atmosphere.
-on
West have to paza alter an opening bid by South, An overval at the two level on
a four card suit would be
dangerous and no-trung with
a tieto in the opencat's sull would be inviting the under- taker.
About that time the lule Maj. Rufus C. Patton invented the negative or take out double and this West hand is a perfect example of this bid.
He doubles to ask his partner to bid. This time it turns at
will
He has that East
pass. very good spades and should de- eide to try to set South.
West won't like it when Eart posses his take-out double, but West should not be two annoyed to open bir singleta trump.
Incidentally, this trump open- when ing is mal procedure
puses you; take your partner
you
If 11 was heaven. spend two months so happily contined proal there's be П wonderful
in such With just one exira on the together holiday Jill Ireland's honey- space, it's good
going moon was ruined.
future.
BRIDGE
WEST
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KQ92 4AQ73
NORTHI 452
J0043 354 *J54
15
EAST AQJ 1000 *A2
+ J 107 1082
SOUTH (D)
4AK754
87
AB3
KG
Both vulnerable
Pasa
Houth West Nerth 1 A Double Pass
Opening lead~★ 3
East Posa
a
IS THERE
A LINK?
Ninteresting theory demurred
To my mind, Lord Latowej Nerehe her day when i
provided me with the best on honeymoons-make answer At delayed onc.
MONTH LATE
5 Stevie, his wife, tok! me! As
"My husband had bust news in England Immediately after our wedding, so we didn't take a honeymoon fill a month later.
A
heard about the lunch enjoyed recently by the author of the
Sunt famous
books, Leslie Charteris, on a lying visit to this country.
At the Regent Palace Carvery he was
to seen choose roast beef and two veg for his first entirse, Toast Tamb for 15 second and as a sweet, a nice portion of roast pork.
A
Is there then definite Rink digestion "We had the most wonder-, between an auther's
I think ful time, went to Rome where and his inspiration?
I mean the Judy Montagu, who is a great there must be chun, gave parties for us the Saint books always "slip down" whole me. We met Tennessee so easily, don't they? Wiliams and Anna Magnani
if only we could do it
again now.
Designed by a
grandfather
Where should dad be when the baby is born?
WHERE should a man be when his wife is having a baby? Is his proper place in the hospital delivery room at his wife's side? or outside pacing the hallway? Or would they both be better off if he stayed at home until after the baby's arrival?
These are important questions today in the US. where 4,250,000 babies are born annually, because they touch upon vital family relation- ships. Many a modern mother thinks it would do her husband good to "realise what we go through" and to "share the experience."
Others
want their husbands
to stay nway beenuse "having a baby is a woman's business," for her to experience alone. It cannot, they believe, be shared.
Doctors points of view. One obstetrics
by ROBERT P. GOLDMAN
sh (from the American magazine Parade)
department chlef in a New York their baby-and that's how she and livery rooms, hospital says, "We've got a real preferred it. battle on our hands. Hall our
Says a Texas doctor. "Many rtuff wants fathers in the labour labour rooms have from two or and delivery rooms; the ather four beds. How do you think half wants to keep the men out." women In labour might feel Many hospitals are Anding having strangers-the Ofer dierselves in the same fx. husbands-hanging around?"
Reason
Part of the stemm
Asation spokesman.
Comfort
Lay's the
"Being with his wife." adds. " husband
he
can serve
Dr Eugene C. McConn, Chief 15 a great source of comfort and of the Obstetrien Service, reassurans. Having experienc- ed childbire together, they will Marine Medical Centre, Port-
ahead
reason for this land, represents the "no-never be happier for it in the years from the fact that in schoul in stating:
If the hund sincerely feels "It is my opinion that the that he oug to be with his Creasing pressure is being brought on hospitals to pernil husband has little to contribute
wife, he she be granted the husbands
of all concerned opportunity,ording to Dr. H. with their The purposes tu lay wlves in labour and delivery are best served when he goes Lloyd Miller, Cedar Rapids,
hotne to his chlidren or to work provided rooms. Much of this pressure bol!
busband has pay for the ever taken a course study in pre- comes from parents' groups de to help voted to the iden ut natural increasing costs of hospitalisa paration for anthood. But childbirth.
tion,"
another view held by Dr Adds Dr John S. Lyle, of the Sprague Gardita, professor of In Seattle, for example, the Mary Hitchcock Memorial Hos- Obstetrics and cology. In- Association for Childbirth
pital, Hanover, NH: "The main diana University Velical School, Education,
group, effort here is to keep the Indianapolis. He urs:
"Some wives wit their hus- to bands in the labout soin, and I
sports that 12 of the
a citizens
munity's
20
allow fathers
hospitals
com-n "now
husband
to remain with nurses
seasoned
out, Byen have been known
encourage this if wems tha: closeness we have real
their
er wives throughout labour faint in the delivery room." and delivery; tye others permi! An Illinois doctor declares fathers into the labour that the husband should be kept meaning and emotic value to only."
and
out, because he may have on infectious disease and also be-
them."
Panicky
However Dr Gurdi Des not believe husbands shv- ness actual delivery best Is a medlent procedure h can be complicated by a
is young gay, ven a little giddy perhops, and the designer behind the outfit (meant for evening) is not surprisingly Jacques Heim, one of the leading Paris couturiers, known
Similar movements are afoul couse he may "be a nuisance for his youthful styles. in New York, Chicago and Los Husbands have been known to
It come as a shock, Angeles. They reflect a growing pass out in the delivery rooms.” therefore, on meeting this belief that closeness before and
birth can
Husbands should be strengthen clever man to during
with thoir wives discover he had just marrie and make for more
devoted mothers deeply become a grandfather, fathers.
The Maternity Centre Assoeln tion, "Is it a secret?". I asked
New York, national husband. organisation tievoted to im- wonderingly, for the
maternity proved education for ativocates husband-wife and not a particularly
Here is a sumpling opinion ness. Says a spokesman for the believe you can spolla young one either (G2),obtained av Parade from Association, Wint Is more marriage, or save a bad one h should even think of, let various points around the US. Otting than for the husband to a few such hours."
alone design, such Husbands should not share with 1:15 wife the
There are important paycholo frivolous things amazed me.
be close by
extraordinary experience
of gical overtones to the question "A secret? I am very husbands witnessing labour or
Many wives dread the idea of labour and delivery?"
of where the husband should or If the husband is educated should not be. Gullt,
fear, proud," he told me, delivery. One Maine house to understand the birth process shame, joy, desire granddaughter has been wife said that her husband, a
and sett accept what he has realisation
few of the bagging leamed, there is no good reason emotions usually involved. called Veronique-"We farmer. found out too lote it is squash" while she was having to deny him entry to the labour the most popular name in
thought that a grandfather,
LONG-TIME FAVOURITE in "Relax? Didn't want 19, but the beauty shop has been the His we rezuperated a bit in Positano humble lemon
uard for before returning to Ghana," tightening
muscles,
run-down
At that time Lord Listowel was toning jaded hair and cutting Governor-General there.
through any excess avoirdupois.
Now the orange has jumped with his into the market with the intro- obviously duction ilit week of Alan
The Duke of Kent
after a club trick he is likely to lovely new Duchess make only his are and king of couldn't take a delayed honey- Spiers Orange Peel shampoo. trumps and ace of diamonds. moon even if he'd wanted du, which is astringent, impregnated
he Suppose
arranged with the fruit and made to After tackle the worst sort of greasy a regulation ten days at Bal- hair.
O ecurs. East and West do so out double. He is showing very have a game, but an 800 or 1.100 The next best thin good trumps and you should point penalty is better. start the trump suit right o the bat.
Axainst this
Trump opening
South is almost helpless. Double dummy he can get out with four tricks but if he doesn't go right
VCARD Serised♦
QThe bidding har been:
West
North East
Double
1
Pass
19
Pars
Pama
South
Itcdbl Pass
Pass 14
INT. Poss 2
RA
You, South, hold;
Pass
7
France just now," said Philippe, the father. Sportaville market this; snappy suit in imitation leather at 8 gns. complete.
London Express Service).
STORIES FOR BOYS AND GIRLS
Cricket's Good Deed
-He Made A Weeping Willow Laugh-
By MAX TRELL
I-
for? I want to make everyone happy.
"With that I jumped heing very careful not to drop my guitar and hurried along the edge of the pond.
hanging by a strap from his shoulder. Then she said:
"Tell me what you did, Chris
repented Christopher ing. "Did?"
"I made a Weeping laugh, that's
saki Christopher W Cricket us
he hopped up Gear? on the park bench and sat tum-
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What do you do?
Answer Tomorraw
*l üwk nick to Hand, the Cricket, Shadow Girl with the Turned Willow About Name, 1 ist did a very did." good dext
Weeping Willow
"By and by I came lo where the Weeping Willow was stand- "Now this Weeping Willow what certainly looks sad, said to myself. I play and sing a ffani said she wanted to tune or two and make it laugh.' The So I sat down under hear more about this. So Chris- smiled. She looked topher uncrossed his legs and Willow and tuned up my xultar.
" was about to start sing down at Christopher sitting so unfolded his arms and eroand cheerfully with his six or seven and folded them again another ing when a Frog hopped uver.
I'm about tô sing a son Flogs crossed and his three or way.
and try to make this Weeping tour arms folded nud his guitar
Wow laugh,' I told the Frok
**Ton't think you can do it,'
Hanid
Rupert and Gwyneth-53
The mischievous couple chase the quarry into an orchard and Rupert, running at his fastest. manages to get ahead of them just we the trightened Dinkie spring! up, a tree.
What
per of Inuisances you are!" he exclaims breathlessly, "First the broom
atich and now you Stop it at once and go back to my garden- and behave yourselvçə 1**
***** To hla zellef be finds that both creatures obey him at once just as the brook had done. They turn and tret quietly ahead of him out of the orchard and up the path. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED
His story
Finally he began:
"I'm about to sing a song," Christopher told Frog.
Opinion
out wis
LADY
your
and able
CHINA
1
care
In regard to husbandig and closeness, as a factor in p parenthood, the marriage together, close Gardiner concludes.
"Ident
LUCK
MAIL horoscope
whe
are a
Advice
Schillinger,
A
Morton psychologist and director of the Lincoln Institute
for Psycho- therapy, New York, offers there cautions;
Husband-wife closeness at the time of birth may be a good idea, but neither should insist on it because it is "the
thing to do."
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the husband prepared to feci anxiety and to see his wife in pain? IT, In the labour room, he finds he must leave because it becomes too much to endure, should he feel guilty? Hardly. Ho has reacted
honestly.
THURSDAY, JUNE 29 AQUARIUS (6) (January 21- with a group of friends of Wives must ask themselves,
3 February 19); If you want earlier days.
"Am I prepared to share 22.this experience? Many would (2) || (August to derive full benefit from VIRGO your holiday, leave your September 22): Your pas-say no. If they searched their workaday cares strictly at sion for going into details emotions honestly.
Will the husband's presence may be irritating to people 4 inhibi; his wife from giving home.
prefer to deal in PISCES (2) (February 20-
vent to her feelings?
Will the generalities,
think that if she cries out in March 203: When you are LIBRA ) (September 23. front of her husband not in the mood for talking
it will October 22): A rather cost- tower her in his estimation? Ir to people, you would find a
ly project may have to be so, husband-wife closeness isn't pet animal a great source of
postponed until further re-worth it. comfort.
sources become available.
Dr Jean Pakter, Chiet of the Maternity and Newborn Divi- SCORPIO (10) (October 23- sion, Now York Board of November 21): Suppress Health, advances the views of any doubts of your partner's physicion and mollier. loyalty. A happy unlon must
ARIES (7) (March 21-April 19): After a series of in- Itint delays you will be glad to get down to the nuin business of the day.
TAURUS (5) (Apell 20-May
be based on complete mutual trust.
Frog sald. But if you're going ellers sang while I played my to sing. I'll sing with you.
"That's fine!" I said to the guitar,"
20): Your willingness to SAGITTARIUS (8) (Novem "And did the Weeping Willow
It happened last evening just as it was beginning to get dark, I was.aiting on a white pebble Bear the edge of the pont. Fro was a beautiful evening. sky way clear. stars were shining. I felt won derfully happy.
A few
I raid to myself, hope everyone is as happy
1 om!'
The
Carly
T
lough?" asked Hanid.
"Just then a Robin flew over. "Frost and I are going to
"I certainly did," mid Chris- ainic and cheer up this Weeping topher Cricket, "It threw up t Willow and make it laugh,"
drooping branches and laughed explained to the Robin.
and laughed.
"Robin was sure nothing as could make the Willow laugh.
but he said he would sing, too,
"Then;" id Christopher. started to play my "guitar, always play when I'm happy, It makes me happier.
Stopped playing
"But all of a sudden I stopped playing!
More come
Everybody hoard it
"The Policeman in the park heard it. The Llums and the Tigers in the zeo heard it. The "Then a Squirrel, a tree Toad, Horses on the merry-go-round a Turush, and five Bees came heard it. Everyone in the whole along. I told them all that Frog park heard it and Robin and I were going to try to make the Weeping VH- low laugh.
Just imagine, they all said,
the Weeping Willow a laugh- "Now, I said, let's all eing!' ingi "So," rald Christopher Cricket And that," suid Christopher Cricket, to ifamud, "Is the good self, I said, "Isn't there any- to tanid, we all made muste,
***Here I om playing my guitar and singing all by my-
one else I could play and sing Frog and Robin and all the deed I did today!"
duilen of 1111
tako on the absent colleague will be greatly appreciated by your employers.
¡GEMINI (9)(May 21-June 21): A nocial evening at the home of your chief will give you a chance to reveal the wide range of your interests.
CANCER (12) (June 22-July 21): Reaint the temptation to purДue an argument once the main mattor ak issue has boon nettled.
LEO (11) (July 22-August
21): You will enjoy evening recalling old times
Depends
"Let's individualise this," ber 22-December 21): Anhe says. "If the husband is a person born under Libra worry-wart, exeltable and high- should be able to shed light strung, he'll hardly be able to
comfort his wife, If he is on your problem, providing serene and placid personality, you discuss it openly with who knows what to expect, ho him.
may well serve as a source of CAPRICORN (4) (December strength and comfort to hid
22-January 20): A close wife." friend may move abroad, Saya Dr Pakter, "Many wives they want to spare and you will not find it easy feel that
the man they love the sight of to replace him.
their travall. YOUR
"All of this LUCKY NUMBER:
does not mean husband
should be Count the letters in your that the Brat name and nid the total ctor to his wife as soon after Me should be as miles away, the number, shown in
the birth as possible. At that brackets after your sign of time, wives really appreciato
to
the Zodiac. This is your the warmth their lucky number for today, can provide."
husbanda
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