1951-09-22 — Page 11

IRAN

«POLITICAL, HOSPITAL

THE CHINA MAIL, SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 1951.

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MAKING A SUCCESS OF YOUR MARRIAGE.

MELODRAMA IN ISFAHAN

By KENNETH MACAULAY

TEHERAN.

The utente lathan, south of HE Persians have put on a jolly little dramatic en- Teheran. It is a play about the horrible British, and could be billed this way:

AT ISTAHAN TWENTINE

FONIGHT

THRILLING MELODRAMA

c/o in three acts ass

IKAFT 10:11 STONY: OF THE} RISE AND FALE OF BRITISH) IMPERIALISM AND THE WICKED ANGLO-IRANIAN DIL COMPANY

"Aud-here is a synopsis 2-

ACT 1

the Persian Government. He! and his men are celebrating by beating a few Persians to death to teach them to work harder.

There are a lot of import- ed women running around to corrupt Persian youths. The English laugh to such fun.

ACT 2

gee

THE SCENE is Abadon,

THE TIME: Many years later. A poor Persian woman op- prouches a group of arrogant; cilmen and begs for a "crust. Pitecusly she holds out her baby THE SCENE is set in the mode of wood. desert hills of Masjid-i- The wicked ́ollmin start lash- Sulaiman, north of Abadan, ing the woman, They beat her where an Englishman, Wil- almost to death and do so with liam Knox D'Arcy discover. a light laugh. The baby falla ed oll and made Anglo- grasp and rolls woodenly across from the woman's nerveless: Iranian possible.

THE TIME is 1901.. D'Arcy has just got the first oil concession out of

Part Three

WHAT DO HUSBANDS FIND LACKING IN THEIR WIVES?

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ELATIVES all ton often threaten marital. harmony through their jea- lousy, ambition: zor.otherði.. interests.

The wife who succeeds in upbringing, keeping her husband's family attached to him, in allowing a place, that is to Bay, for their feelings with in the framework of her marriage, gains permanent credit on the marital balance sheet.

On the other hand the wife who breaks with her husband's relatives is thereby. placing herself in

a potentially dan; gerous position. Agalh marriage may be threatened if the husband insists that his wife break with her family.

the

By the celebrated divorce lawyer

Edward Kaufmann

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and

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wife.

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a..womaIS

is usually has learned first marriage with a husband.

who frequently in a - how to deal

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the stage.

ACT 3

THE SCENE is the office in: Khorramshah of Eric Drake, general manager of the Anglo- Iranian Oil Company.

THE

ROW.

TIME:- Any

T

moment

Drake, a huge pipe sticking trom his mouth is threatening to. kill a senior Persian amelal withi his ́ bäre · hands. How dare he allow the Persians even to think of nationalisation, roars Drake.

The Persian begs for justice, If not mercy. Drake is just about to fell him to the ground when the door bursts open. Six hand- some stalwart, justice-giving oil technicians from Russia come in.

The noble liberators tear down the picture of King George above Drake's desk, trample on the Union Jack, and heave Drake out to tempestuous plause, Curtain.

Now present at the Brst night was the, Governor of Khuzistan Province and the Persian Army divisional commander.

Having asked many men what they find lacking in their wives one-le struck by the repetition of certain complaints. The well-ordered household,

The British Embassy « felt.... It good meal, the tidiness in per-

was not good enough that wo on, the general cleanliness such high-ups should counten- there factors are apparently of ance the tearing down of His some importance. And yet if a Majesty's portrait and, the non- woman gives too much"time at-

sense with the Union Jack. tending to such domestic details the husband may feel she is not giving him sufficient attentiont

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upbringing with his children's age for her sake? What peculiar not only of matrimony, but of charms, what outstanding quall the early psychological patterns ties does she present that ean of both husband and wife, And therefore an intelligent cause him 10 Icave home, wife will not try to "wipe out" children, often reputation, be

A woman who is "knowing" the past or show no interest in hind?

in this respect can make sure what went on before their

that the intrusion of the other Look into the matter.. closely woman never takes place, Dr marriage, but will incorporate many of the things that he

one finds that in most can be alpped in the bud. knew and loved as

child.

she possesses cases

one or whether it is some aspect at other of two tributes: the is But perhaps more dangerous

living, gracious

domestic

who is than a woman either sexually attractive or

shall habli, a favourite dish, a parti "understanding."

we say, more erotic than the cular way of celebrating holl...

wife is the much younger One-husband told me, "From days or birthdays, or a piece of

The more attractive rival is woman who challenges the morning to night my wife rushes -furniture which he has grown

either sexupily more exciting husband's ego, his vanity, his about the fat with vacuum up with.

and amusing, or she is: con declining youth, his reluctance cleaner and dusters. She never I feel swept siderably .younger. than the do yield! with

the has time for me. grace to

up!!! natural laws of acting.. Some women are more "kind. This usually hoppers to hint ling" and more susceptible of in his forties. His conquest of a. femple, rival is usually being kindled than others. At younger woman is a test of his regarded as the biggest the beginning of the marriage youth, virility and power to at menace to marriage. Actually is obvious that the wife must tract-often ja test a man can't the "other woman" is present have been physically attractive resist. In the husband's life at all times to her husband: this helped to Not to be condoned is the

every

where. The wife cannot dotermine their choice of each behaviour of the family that

isolato her husband from this

her other. He preferred When **supervises" a marriage.

She Was the Influence (or interference) blonde, brunette, or raven-black other girls he knew. of the family overshadows the danger. She can, hawever, im- his "type" couple's own ideas on running munise" him to a high degree.. constitutes u Who, what, and how is this their marriage it definite

menace. When his "other woman" who threatens loving sister or her dear mother, to supplant the wife and in both driven by a kind of the long run often does sup- jealousy, present them with an plant her? aver-increasing number of

Female Rival Only

In the most severe cases, when

Is

a particular relative attacks the structure of the marriage. partial or total severance ad- viable.

THE

"directives," the young people Surprisingly enough she are soon confused and divided, seldomi extraordinary in resentful and distraught,

good,"

Fatal Shaft

aby

to

But in the course of time the wife has lost her sexual attr tiveness in bis..eyes." He can Jose interest in a very

short ime, and often does not ad-

New Stimulus

THE

Over 35

THE wife who faces this prob

Another said: "My wife drags me from party to party, from bar la bar, from movie to movie, when I long to stay at home with my books."'

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And still another:Peggy is always before a mirror with powder and lipstick: Sho has na intellectual interests."

Early Exchange

who is confronted

lent is usually over 35, In her husband's eyes she has "servett her time." She has borde him to stay out has forgotten how wife to stay young. Chce slender A. with such criticisms is often it.

and extceful, sho-has perhaps completely sincere in her sur- The "other

Опса women" the become fat and clumsy

prise and indignation. She mey vivacious and inflammable, she be utterly bo

SUC.

unaware that her serious rival --- can way, at least to outward sp-

now Be

"Indie wolk husband was accumulating such pearance. Friends of the mar cessful only when all

four may felds of ried couple meet her, speak to common

charges against her, or that ho marital apathetic, and mentally

Once she has won her husband places such value on these Her, look her over curiously, interest are at a low ebb.

she considers it unnecessary

particular "But

for their mor aspects. and say to each other:

ckert herself, or to keep young ringe. Neither can she under his wife is so much more at-

In mind and body by cultivating stand why, if they wera 50°

Im both. THEN-in 'the worst cases tractive, don't you think?”

told portant to him, he hadn't, comes the fatal

shaft: "Woudn't it be better for you Or: "Don't tell me he is

you breaking up his home for that He now stimulus, in spite of band gives her a false sense to separate new before

The fact that she has a huser so frankly!

of It is therefore clear that an harm each other? We are only woman!"

If intenslly of physical security, as though she had exchange of Ideas on theso suggesting it for your own Or: "You wouldn't think she attraction, might not be able thereby obtained a life insurance matters should not only occur at the payment of a single the beginning of marriage) had a kind of glamour it takes to wean the husband away com- by

never (which happens all too seldom) It is more often the mother to steal a man from his wife pletely without the support of premium. It has

other common interests to sup- occurred to her that to remain a but should be openly discussed cf; the groom who feel that her and children."],

plant his feelings for his wife.

husband requires continuous from time to time thereafter. proprietary rights in her son The truth to that the other

"“pöyiients." #rc being violated by tho

TheOn the other hand, the posslyć

The husband, too, should ex- woman rarely comes Into daughter-in-law B

*pictureby her own.

When she is only twenty, amine his own behaviour and least stimulating, is most likely woman should begin to consider make necessary adjustments just "She tank

took: mes, how, often one hears this establish her by a slow pro- to be neglected for someone what she would like to beat as much and just as often as the

my boy away from alone The wife has over wife, the least "Interesting, the

forty, Woman

write. remain Can

Each should help the cry from a mother, It is, this vess of

a mutually clinging maternal, devotion that begins - htsh, Planting, which more co-opofällup.

(with many uus and ik kept many 'n man from ups downs), progress.. more The end thing is that too many beautiful there need to no other to attain

Less

woman than one in the prime other make mistakes.net women are low in realiaing more seductive and fascinating satisfactory standard. Too often-

me each remains silent and marrying and driven many an or

unconsciously and

fets the shortcomings. To this other to divorce. gradually gains in intensity and their

momentum until the door is respect. A girl has not been off who has grown up, othe A wife can hardly be expect-wide open to the newcomer, the taught before marriage that A third type of sival in Husband and wives too aftan ed to make up for the deficient interloper. The matriage, is by sexual attractiveness is only in the "understanding woman in look for the weaknesses in each understanding of the postssive this time rapidly disintegrating part an Innale quality. She is whom the husband may belleve ofter, for the cracks in the mother-in-law. but she can

not aware of lis exact nature, he has found everything he armour, and overlook and dor that. It cán bé Imported; that had expected to And Inthis wide that are there to be fo

-neglect the splendid. quantles She is as able, th her way, to and understand, he can withdraw a man from his family are, and it with barie-

crually As

attractive bankrupt; [ARRIAGES are not destroy

Physical attractiveness covers woman, indbed, she is often a ruptor.-

comer Into the unhappy Knowledge of her husband's youth, pilained In conversations

more permanent husband ken, he perhaps dow are daten away by psychologi- caro, appearance, gestira, unctions are

cides that his marriage has been with her husband's family..as calurosion, until the barriers are poles, the language of love, the then the merely physical,

Purgatory, but, now that he has well th with him,, can aid hon worn so thin that the outsider act of love. It is determined by

and should make 'every attempt zo ateate a balance that will keep her husband's relations with his family from coming to

Worn Thin

..

The

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‚ed by: suddërt violênös, they: a wide field. It includes bodily greater, menace,“ Sipse" her ‚al-. woman's understandin

In understanding his behaviour can break through with: "uftio the whole renfistle" and Avoids Errors

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What inżerskabout hor, that

und aim, that

Imaginative background against which the marriage takes pincepales hey the sole reinantle miller,

So Embassy Counsellor George Middleton went down to the Foreign Office.

The Foreign Minister's deputy sald that the presence of the high-ups was a colveldense and instructions would be sent for the play to be taken off.

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