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The cynic and sneer but he has firmy

money

hat he style

wants in the wom

and goes all

een ac

do saw

out for her when met ber

thinks he's withou

to:

they are used frock coat

wife must become a work

ell as a life

The trouble with us all is that we are incapable of carrying romanec ng any farther than the altar.

After the honeymoon, when we have to bring our heads down from the clouds and look at the very -ordinary earth under our feet

we find that money and romance don't go together.

And it's more often money that makes or

· marriage..

Self-Indulgence

than not breaks a

All of us know young people who married on a high gust of passion. although they had only a small in- come on which to live.

They believed their love would be strong enough to stand the

And, too often, that brings more trouble

The wife then has to hold down a job, and run a home. And the husband is usually missing when she wants him to roll up his sleeves and lend her a hand with the washing up

When a wife works outside the home and helps to support it, she has a right to expect her husband to share in the housework

It is certainly unfair of her hus- band to lay upon her shoulders all the burden of the housework while he sits around in idleness. Husbands

strain of poverty and -sacrifices. Idio

No man who has any affection but when the test came it failed.

They could not endure living in for his wife, or even any sense of ugly surroundings, eating poor justice, would do such a thing. food and not being able to go to places of amusement.

The result was disillusionment and quarrels.

It is a sordid thing to say, but i most young people of to-day love good clothes and good times better

THE

Yet how many men any praise when she ha own work well? Cold Wives

re a woma77 done her

I recently had a letter from husband who moaned – because, he said, hi

was hard

affection nty of thin there is no doubt him up and him feel

algus labour e was worth while if his wife would meet him with a sweet sumle, and the look in es that told him there just couldn't be another man in the world for her.

But how about it if the husband comes home grumpy and cross and grouchy?

What can

the

answer

do

I

ng me that

e-aged

I know that if

she will deny him know that I am

she do Invariably,

is nothing Just lie low and pretend she hasn't noticed. to the other woman will hum her and do no Going into hysterics at the ss husband will do a lot of

Acting passively is the hardest all but in case like this, is the only possi attitude. It always offers a chance that things may come right in the end. The Slave Wife

Then there is the husband who makes an ever-slaving drudge of his wife, so that he shall always be turned out looking like a tailor's

If he lacks the cat so soon as he dummy opens the door? N

Not only must she be his wife If he spank's the baby, finds fault but his valet, too ith the dinner and never even. And while she's sitting down get-

has ting a little rest after all her la Yet I am sorry to say it is a very notices how hard his wife common thing for the husbands of worked taking care of the children bours, out he goes to cut a dash business women to do.

and making a comfortable home? with the girls.

"Help with the housework?” they say. "But that's a woman's

and job!"

But why is it any more shameful

المهني

WORLD GOES BY By ULYSSES"

AM on holiday, as I revealed in this column yesterday. That is, I am officially on holiday. This column still hangs round my neck millstone and quite spoils the charm of one of the most de lightful spots I have eve ed with my presence.

like a

*

Maybe a disillusioned valet- o be kissed you have to wife writes to me it hadn't been in order keep yourself kissable.

so willing to keep my husband all In order to be loved you have to new and shining might have kept be lovable.

No woman is going to kiss a husband who comes in looking like image, and who turns the his head to her lips.

Philanderers

for myself instead of handing him over to someone else.”

And she's

You

:serv

when

lose e

for a man's ried to

eed to be his every spark of uality you ever had.

've got to use your common sense when you're married, and you've got to hang on to your sense of proportion if you want your husband to hang on to you. Learn To Laugh

Quite a ammber of wives, of course, don't get the chance to kiss or nag their husbands when they They draw fantastic stories for

come in

do come in. they never (largely) inventing "colour stories? These are the philandering hus that go down well in newspapers bands, who are the cause of many many miles away, where the shoot-ear blotted letters reaching my ing up of civilians and poorly-k armed soldiery by a perfectly "Why must he do it?” wives ask. But whatever kind honour-equipped enemy makes good read-

I keep myself smart, and the you lead to the altar ing. I suppose they earn their

lovely Why can't he be thing to remember

Rose The only possible keep. I know I did on several oc-

explanation often is that the take the place naturally restless and the ang

talk

You will remember that yester day I spoke of the quiet plače. Everything is dean between you and I is sometim not such a bad thing after But some day, perhaps, the biggest news story of all time may "break" here. Perhaps.

And I'd like to be the Resident Permanent Special Correspondent waiting for something to torn up, Just sitting here year after lying in the sunshine

What a Jon you were mad

scream at you and shriek about the great money moguls who get out of bed at four in the morning to con- tinue their endless scratching for gold

But the people here would under- stand. They know. They see the people of the outside world spin ning faster in ever diminishing circles until finally, they will re-

Belews had to be got,

to anxious sub-editors

ting ready with reams of

Keen your

graph forms to fash the great Vanity leads many other married courtship is news to the four corners of the men into philandering earth. With no telephones, com They fan themselves Don learn to laugh plete lack of communication and a Juans whom, no woman can resist,

at yourself few other difficulties thrown in for and they are bound to try out their fair chance of good measure, it was a miracle fatal fascinations

on every girl Silver Wedding that anything ever got through at they meet.

But it did. How it

secret and will no

request 18

Drama

The sincerity of his approach to the music was not the least attractive feature of some very, competent playing "

music critic

Times

Other

ich

long

With a shifty look in his eyes woman m

The w

the

volve at great speed on their own and a twisted secret smile the axis, achieving nothing but a high-great violinist waited for the or- the ma pitched whine

chestra to begin a Bach con

There is, I believe, a dispute A woman's cry rang

in a place called North from the stalls. "Stop him Also nothe

not sincere! Do not

called Spain. But don't care.

Such things

that music!

not

pmlanderer for hi friend

IN RED EACH WINTER WETE RHEUMATISM

Only in Her Teens

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