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THE CHINA MAIL, JUNE 30, 1987.
MAKE YOUR HUSBAND LEARN
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In the Swim
THESE
GOLDEN RULES
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1. Inform yourself on the prin- "The old way is good enough for cannot possibly judge wisely ciples of modern child care. Until me. You don't run your business correct intelligently when you are
called upon to discipline you do, you can be neither a critic by out-of-date methods.
6. nor a dissenter.
Don't thrust on your wife all hours after his misbehaviour. the disagreeable tasks in baby rear-
WORK FOR 'LASTING RESULTS ing and assume as your rights all the pleasurable ones.
2. Help your wife plan a routine for the children which is suited to your-particular household, and ob- .: Children serve it conscientiously. and babies thrive on regularity.
3. Don't be the elfish type of father who says, "Keep the baby up until I get home. It's my only chance to see him.”
Play with the baby in the early morning. - Your wife would enjoy that.
GIVE YOUR WIFE HER CHANCE
TREAT YOUR CHILD FAIRLY.
Be patient with your children
Remem when they are naughty. ber your own childhood and do not expect any better behaviour of them than you were capable of as a child.
11. Don't expect "miracles of your wife. You would be no more apt to perform them if you had the children all day.
account,
It must be taken into also, that the best method may not always show, an immediate result, but a far-reaching and lasting one.
Poor methods of correction, such as painful punishments, very often show an immediate but not a last- ing or permanent result.
are
8. If you had a tyrannical fa- ther and hated him for his tyran- nies, don't decide now, after time has softened the memories, that per-
Growth is slow Children 4. Don't quote your mother, and haps it was good for you talk about what a success she was The tyrannies practised by pre- unfinished products for many long at rearing children. Times have sent-day fathers on their children years, and all unfinished products "getting may at times be annoying. It is changed. We are living now, not a are often in a spirit of generation" ago,"
‚—and your wife has even." You think, because you suf-easy enough to make any child toe a better right to carry out modern fered it, your son should suffer it.the mark at the moment.
What all modern parents are principles than unintelligently Remember your wounds, and avoid copy the last generation.
inflicting similar ones.
working for is to train the child to 9. Don't try subtly to win the think and act wisely without the children's affections away from your fear of punishment hanging over wife. Don't take their part against him.
to
Be satisfied that your mother was successful and give your wife
a chance to be the same.
12. Some of the biggest minds in
5. Begin to think about discipher. If you disagree with her ideas line before the time for it arrives. or methods, talk it over with her the country, scientists, psychologists, Make up your mind that whipping outside the hearing of the children psycho-analysts and psychiatrists, and other painful punishments and Be enough of a good sport to are striving to solve some of the fearsome threats are as dead as the uphold her when she has made a problems of child behaviour. Don't dodo. They died because they were decision. You wreck discipline in think this too petty a subject to be unsuccessful methods of getting the the home if you do otherwise. accorded your best thinking. right response from children.
10. If the children are with the Child training is as much you job Try to understand why we have mother all day long, let her manage and your responsibility as your changed in our opinion of such the discipline. To be effective, wife's. She needs your viewpoint punishments, instead of saying, 'discipline must be Immediate. You and co-operation.
One piece bathing suits will be pro- fuss on the beaches this year, as never before. Cecilia Parker, of the movie colony, doem't intend to be left behind. She has this suit of bar) gundy satin with a shadow flower design. The white silk straps and contrasting note. double belt add a
SOAK YOUR BROCCOLI
To prepare broccoli, soak it for 15 minutes in cold water to which * 1 tablespoon of vinegar and 1 teaspoon of salt have been added for each quart of water. This will remove dirt and insects. Cook whole, heads up, in boiling water in an uncovered container for seven minutes or until tender.
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